"I think part of the reason why we hold on to something so tight is because we fear something so great won't happen twice." Sad thing is that holding on will also keep a greater thing from coming. Fear should never be a motivation.
This is exactly what my husband does.Marriage wisdom teaches us to focus on the future, not continue to bring up the past. True forgiveness doesn't focus on the past but loves today and looks to tomorrow with hope.
"Close your eyes and imagine the best version of you possible. That's who you really are, let go of any part of you that doesn't believe it. Assaad ill go a step further & say let go of ANONE who doesn't believe it!