The fantasy world of narcs can have a seductive allure. Their superficial charm is enchanting, they often appear to be complicated, colorful & exciting as they draw you in to their web. Being singled out for attention by a narc can be an intoxicating sensation, but that "loving" feeling can turn into something not loving at all. When you cease to be of use in pumping up the narcs fragile ego, you may feel that the air has suddenly been let out of your own ego too.
