The Ultimate Maid of Honor Survival Guide: Congratulations! You’ve just been assigned one of the most important roles in the wedding party! Whether you’re the maid of honor or matron of honor, one of your significant responsibilities is to make life easier for the bride during the wedding planning. With helpful tips, and a checklist of items to be aware of, you’ll be ready to take on whatever the wedding party (or the bride) happens to throw at you.