ENTP Women- "Just because it's my preference to be nice does not mean I'm a pushover. Just because it's my nature to be congenial does not make me a safe target. I'm like fireworks: pretty, peaceful, stable.
The reason I'm only really myself around my family is because they know not to get offended when I say things. I've probably called most my friends idiots at one time or the other (myself included) because we all are morons in some ways. No offense.