Normality is a paved road: it's comfortable to walk, but no flowers grow on it. - Vincent van Gogh, Dutch Post-Impressionist painter who is among the most famous and influential figures in the history of Western art.
The same with one negative or mean word! Being honest we all would have to say we have been on both sides of this spectrum! I am so happy that I have found myself and now try to remember to only use kind words!