I remember reading this in an article a long time ago and it really striking a chord. I often hear people say that they would rather have their partner be the one who loves them more. There is some narrative that we believe that says "if I don't love you more than you love me, I'll never get hurt." It's a distorted belief that let's us hold some form of perceived power and control, but has us living and loving from a fear based place. Truth is, you don't walk around with power, you walk aro...
