You can't have a strong connection to others when you neglect your connection to self. Don't give to others if you can't give to yourself. It will result in a power imbalance and despair. This is a huge infj weakness
"Myers Briggs broken down" . No source, sadly. And it's weird, because at the top we have not the functional groupings of the MBTI, but the Temperament groupings of the Keirsey system (which I prefer-but it's still a mistake).