No-Sew Two Layer Fleece Poncho. A great alternative to coats because you can strap them into their carseat underneath the poncho! It is not safe to put a bulky coat on a child in a carseat because you have to loosen the straps, which is dangerous.
Confidence in Christ. Feeling powerless and being powerless are two very different things. As you take small steps towards your goals (no matter how you're feeling) you will discover that powerless is not who you are at all!