Some people, no matter what you do, are not going to be for you. Even if you changed, met all their demands and did everything they asked, they would still find something wrong. Ignore those critical voices. You don’t need those people’s approval.
Religion is NOT Crowd Control. Religion IS Biblical. Pure and Undefiled Religion in the sight of our GOD and FATHER is this: to Visit Orphans and Widows in their Distress, and to keep oneself unstained by the world.