What are the four questions that you need to ask to set yourself free of pain and suffering? Byron Katie's "Loving What Is" has powerful answers.
http://www.loalover.com/reality-is-always-kinder-than-your-thinking/ - Reality is always kinder than your thinking
I stopped waiting for the world to give me what I wanted; I started giving it to myself ☼ Byron Katie
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"Who is more hurtful: the person who wronged you once or you for reliving it over and over in your head?" - Byron Katie
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I find this to be true almost daily, things happen for a reason, let go of the illusion of control don't brave for impacts that may never come, just be.
What an awesome thing 2love yourself. The only natural outcome is u love others even more! Sooo cool. Win win!