No one is sent by accident to anyone. Something good ALWAYS comes from something bad. I have MANY blessings in my life because of him. He just wasn't a blessing. Instead, he was a lesson. So glad to be DONE w/ him. It was really difficult because I wanted a relationship w/ him so desperately. WAY to desperately and he knew that. He put me though hell (stroking his ego) because he thought he knew I'd never leave. Now he wants he back. I'll NEVER go back to him.