A woman isn't a thing to catch because she is pretty to look at. Glorifying "hard to get" perpetuates rape culture that tells men it's okay to keep pursuing a woman after she says no because she doesn't really mean it. She's just "playing hard to get".
"Perhaps the butterfly is proof that you can go through a great deal of darkness yet become something beautiful." - from the pure darkness of a chrysalis out emerges a flying mosaic of aliveness and mystery. hold onto the butterfly.